the line of being selfless or altruistic and selfish is really thin.
as homo sapiens it is in our nature to feel narcisstic and trying to make other people have the same opinion and be like us. we are allways trying to see characteristics in people that are reminding us of ourselves or to someone that we wanna be.
everything goes around intrest. the good part is that in the last 50 years we are learning how to control it and be aware of it;)
that is why we are connecting easier or harder with different people. that comes from our sub-concsience and the fact that we were animals long time ago;)
but if u put it " looking into his/her eyes and feeling comfirtable about the two of u, feeling that u have found what u were looking for" thats different.
i have a couple of challenges for u(i know that u love them;) about beeing selfless or selfish. from some books that i read...but in another occasion...
hmmm, i'm not sure this is cool. kinda freaks me out. i want to love someone that compliments me, because as we all know, too much of a good thing is not good at all.
I agree, "you" should try thinking selfless instead of selfish.
I like to think that it's more like looking into a two-way mirror. You might see your reflection at first, but if it's "true" you look closer and see right through, and find that they are looking right back at you.
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those not in love are not separated
i dont like it. it is like looking at a mirror and loving ur self. is that enough...or is it too much?
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That all depends on how narcissistic you are.
i once read a porno that started out with a guy looking at himself in the mirror
Try thinking selfless instead of selfish
the line of being selfless or altruistic and selfish is really thin.
as homo sapiens it is in our nature to feel narcisstic and trying to make other people have the same opinion and be like us. we are allways trying to see characteristics in people that are reminding us of ourselves or to someone that we wanna be.
everything goes around intrest. the good part is that in the last 50 years we are learning how to control it and be aware of it;)
that is why we are connecting easier or harder with different people. that comes from our sub-concsience and the fact that we were animals long time ago;)
but if u put it " looking into his/her eyes and feeling comfirtable about the two of u, feeling that u have found what u were looking for" thats different.
i have a couple of challenges for u(i know that u love them;) about beeing selfless or selfish. from some books that i read...but in another occasion...
have fun in India:)
hmmm, i'm not sure this is cool. kinda freaks me out. i want to love someone that compliments me, because as we all know, too much of a good thing is not good at all.
I agree, "you" should try thinking selfless instead of selfish.
I like to think that it's more like looking into a two-way mirror. You might see your reflection at first, but if it's "true" you look closer and see right through, and find that they are looking right back at you.
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